The urge to please people can be incredibly strong. It’s natural to want people to like, admire, and think highly of you. The problem is, when your priority is on pleasing others, then you’re selling yourself out. At the end of the day, some people will like you, and some won’t. It’s tempting to think that people liking you is what’s valuable and important. It’s not. Being the kind of person YOU want to be and doing YOUR own thing is actually what’s valuable. Here are some tips to help you drop the pleasing and start living the life that reflects who you are and all the amazing things about you.